Remember when Valentine’s Day was all about the fun, excitement and sexy thrill? Unfortunately, if you are in a long-term relationship, chances are Valentine’s Day is not what it used to be. But, that doesn’t mean you should leave things stagnant and unmoving!
Long-term relationships are more complicated when it comes to excitement and newness, which is why you need to put in the effort times and times again. Considering this is more than necessary to revive the spark in your relationship, we’ll present 4 great ways to help you restore passion for Couples on Valentines Day!
Couples on Valentines Day: Power Play!
Long-term partners enjoy obtaining and giving up power in the bedroom, as it is a great exercise to keep the lust alive between the sheets. So, who gets control in bed for Valentine’s Day? That’s up to you, whether you roll a dice or vote, but one thing is certain, a sub-dom experience can be both exhilarating and exotic, and ultimately, there’s nothing wrong with giving up the power in the name of pleasure.
If you cannot decide who gets to be the dominant partner, you can keep switching and timing your roles, giving each other half an hour to reign the bedroom.
Seducing Is the Way to Go!
When was the last time you actually tried to get your partner to fall for your charms? If you had to think about it, it has probably been too long. So, without hesitating, make this Valentine’s Day all about the chase and hunt. Groom, dress up, out a nice perfume on and flirt your way to mind-blowing sex. Seduction is not always about sex alone, so keep in mind that you’ll have to be a true gentleman and a player to get the girl.
Couples on Valentines Day: The Senses!
While sex is physically great for the body and mind, so is playing with your senses before actually going all in. Touching each other all night long, feeding each other foods and playing with anticipation can be great aphrodisiacs that will ensure a great Valentine’s Day date and after-party, too!
To accentuate the senses, play around with temperatures (use ice, then candlewax), use a blindfold, or simply give your partner a nice massage…all over.
The Seduction Bowl!
Every couple should be relying on the seduction bowl as a great method of spicing things up in bed. Get a bowl or a case which you’ll fill with written sex fantasies and desires. Take the week before Valentine’s Day and add one wish per day. Just in time for the holiday, pick a few papers from the bowl and act out the fantasies included.
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